Golden Thumb Rules to lead LIfe thru my INK :)

Ever Since, I have been with myself, have realised some critical truth's about the race of life. I have adapted these as the golden thumb rules for me. These are well to do fact from my crude experience. :-)

As per the Newton's law " For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction", which hit's true to the fact, "As you sow, so shall you reap".

No back biting - Do not even attempt to give free suggestions or go to improve someone's life unless told else it will turn into back biting.
Be assertive - To prove your point, be smart and assertive which not only gives the required recognition but also does not hit some one strongly.
Learn to accept, change and adapt - Try to accept changes in your life and most importantly adapt those changes for good. This is the most difficult of all the facts as you need to adjust yourself according to others lifestyle or circumstances, but if you try to be stiff it gives bad effects in your life.
Always appreciate others for even a miniature of good deed - It is again a Give and Take relationship. Having expectations are not bad but you need to know to appreciate others and to gain in return.
Be diplomatic - This world is for Diplomat's. You can not be Gandhi ji always.
Trust your intuition - At times when all the doors are shut, it is your innerself which gives you immense signals to come out of it.
Always trust on the first thought - When in confusion, always trust the first thought that comes to your mind. Trust me that will make your life much easier.
Don't jump into conclusion - Giving a thought process with proper analysis to your judgment reaps better results.
Ask questions to your self - before anyone else can point a finger on you, ask questions to yourself and save your ASS.
Be positive - This is the must to have. When there is no hope, positive thinking acts like an ignition and generates the spark of hope.
Never stop dreaming - To be successful, lead the path of your dreams. They are the roadmap and the key indicators towards your success.
Don't be too hard on yourself - Before expecting an appreciation from others, analyse and appreciate your own self Forsee your future with clear mind. Believe in your self and always carry inner content.
Always have a plan B with yourself - You never know in life you need to repent for not having a backup.
Network - It is very important to build your network. You may need them at any point in time.
Learn to forgive others for their misakes.
Carry a fevicol smile on your face - It charges not only you but the enviornment around you as well. & you never know who is falling in love with your smile ;)
Don't panic, there is always a solution for all the problems - be calm and relaxed, solution is there in your hands.
Have a goal setting for yourself - Maintain a 'To Do list' every day, this helps in accomplishing goals.
Copy is better than the model - Have some one as a model and you will always be ahead of your own model. :-o)
Value your family and be there for them without any means
At times self-deciet is helpful
Lending a helping hand does not pain
Confidence is a key to make or break
Take time to understand your BOSS.. Try to model your Boss. - It is in your hand to make your life "Hell" or "Heaven" @ office ;). So instead of getting depressed on any hit by your boss, it is better to understand the nature of your boss well to do to make your life easier and ofcourse "Heaven". Try to put your feet in others shoe.
Friends have to be treasured through out life time - No matter if you stay in touch with them or not, but always treasure a good report with your friends, cos all of us are special in some or the other way & we tend to learn from any one. A remebrance of those good things learnt from your friends can be a good trigger while in need.
Be a good listener. - Try to remember things told by those who care. At times you need to force yourself hard to pay attention to what they told, but it pays in long run if you remember. The smell of the care from your behaviour when you pay attention gives a big relief to your loved one.

Trust me all this has worked for me & I am sure we all believe in the above truths. But I enjoyed writing all this, after all it was my experience. :-0)

Self Love

How important is to be self-dependant for oneself?? This question has shattered me manier times, as and when there were experiences. We should ask this quite often to ourself who is there with us to care for us ?? In my journey I have treasured so many good friends who always had claimed to be the best of all and always there to help me as and when required. But I keep giving reality checks to myself as and when need be. Self realisation is the best realisation. No wonder one person has always been with me in all good times and bad times when ever I wanted, when ever there was the happiest moment in my life or the worst in my life.. This very person has always been through with my expectations.. if you are thinking it's one of my friend's or family, or some one near and dear..sorry this is "Me' MYSELF".. I have always been the best critc for myself, and had been too hard on myself. But neverthless realised that with all this criticism there needs to be some appreciation towards myself. Why not this is someone who is going to be there forever with me without any priorities in life. It does not demand me to be smart, ugly, pathetic or what ever.. I am just me .. When all of us know that we need to live with ourself, why not love ourself. There's always a self satisfaction that one accomplishes while coming across their achievements and feel good to pat at our own back. Till what time you should wait someone to be with you all the time to pat your back and to say that I care. It hurts deep in the heart when your expectations are not met or it becomes a disaster already.

Some time back I attended a lecture from one of my mentor for NLP, that was the most inspiring lecture to know that all of us are so special and came with a special mission to fulfill. We were told to call up our family and friends that day and without giving them any hint say that we are special and we love ourself. We were hesitating to do so and thought that who ever will hear this would actualy think that we have gone mad or crazy. But is was so much of fun telling everyone that yes we are special and for that matter everybody is special. We were supposed to spend an hour in front of the mirror telling every thing which could have bothered us. Almost every one broke into tears.. Reason was we never spent that quality time with our own self, facing our own self so close and telling the truth. Best piece is we can lie to the whole world but can we lie to our own self?.. The answer is crystal clear.

Sky is the limit

I was told by someone to never stop dreaming. Those were the golden and remarkable words in my life. A turning point to decipher my life.
Life is a never ending journey and we pass by lot's of people, take few of them with us, leave few of them behind and ignore some of them on the way. I realised this fact that all of us are special and come with a mission, so decided to explore my mission. Went ahead on the rocky path with lamp of my dreams with me. With days of brainstorming with my own self, a spark lighted and clicked that i already have what i need in life. To be honest there was a dream to become someone unusual, always thought that there is something different in me from others..but kept ignoring the self realisation.
Not till the time, i got to take up my dreams very seriously. Still remember someone during the college days, glanced at my handwriting and told very goody stuff about me. I was so thrilled to hear about me from someone else which was so true. From that time onwards it started hitting me so hard to learn and explore this science. I read almost all the books I could glance through. But that was just the beginning..
At times my sixth sense passes amazing signals, and that was one of them which introduced me to a course in Graphology. It had been a wonderful experience to explore human personality through science. I had a wonderful experience to glance the vision of various categories of people .. Students, Teachers, Expectant Mothers, Celebrities, Doctors. with all these, there was a struggle against the time. I tried to break the boundaries and came out carefree with the help of my friends and family to explore this mission.
Never thought that I could be so passionate about something in life. This tool helped me to overcome my biggest weakness to understand people. Journey from being a so called "innocent" to a title like "dangerous" has been mind boggling.
That's why i say " You Write i read "..& let's see.. I bet you will call me "dangerous" :-)..

Sky is a limit.. I realised this fact after starting to know my dreams properly through all my hidden personality traits. This science has given me a power to help people to know themselves better through their Mind writing.
So, let's have a test drive with your handwriting ..what say???