How important is to be self-dependant for oneself?? This question has shattered me manier times, as and when there were experiences. We should ask this quite often to ourself who is there with us to care for us ?? In my journey I have treasured so many good friends who always had claimed to be the best of all and always there to help me as and when required. But I keep giving reality checks to myself as and when need be. Self realisation is the best realisation. No wonder one person has always been with me in all good times and bad times when ever I wanted, when ever there was the happiest moment in my life or the worst in my life.. This very person has always been through with my expectations.. if you are thinking it's one of my friend's or family, or some one near and dear..sorry this is "Me' MYSELF".. I have always been the best critc for myself, and had been too hard on myself. But neverthless realised that with all this criticism there needs to be some appreciation towards myself. Why not this is someone who is going to be there forever with me without any priorities in life. It does not demand me to be smart, ugly, pathetic or what ever.. I am just me .. When all of us know that we need to live with ourself, why not love ourself. There's always a self satisfaction that one accomplishes while coming across their achievements and feel good to pat at our own back. Till what time you should wait someone to be with you all the time to pat your back and to say that I care. It hurts deep in the heart when your expectations are not met or it becomes a disaster already.
Some time back I attended a lecture from one of my mentor for NLP, that was the most inspiring lecture to know that all of us are so special and came with a special mission to fulfill. We were told to call up our family and friends that day and without giving them any hint say that we are special and we love ourself. We were hesitating to do so and thought that who ever will hear this would actualy think that we have gone mad or crazy. But is was so much of fun telling everyone that yes we are special and for that matter everybody is special. We were supposed to spend an hour in front of the mirror telling every thing which could have bothered us. Almost every one broke into tears.. Reason was we never spent that quality time with our own self, facing our own self so close and telling the truth. Best piece is we can lie to the whole world but can we lie to our own self?.. The answer is crystal clear.
