Golden Thumb Rules to lead LIfe thru my INK :)

Ever Since, I have been with myself, have realised some critical truth's about the race of life. I have adapted these as the golden thumb rules for me. These are well to do fact from my crude experience. :-)

As per the Newton's law " For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction", which hit's true to the fact, "As you sow, so shall you reap".

No back biting - Do not even attempt to give free suggestions or go to improve someone's life unless told else it will turn into back biting.
Be assertive - To prove your point, be smart and assertive which not only gives the required recognition but also does not hit some one strongly.
Learn to accept, change and adapt - Try to accept changes in your life and most importantly adapt those changes for good. This is the most difficult of all the facts as you need to adjust yourself according to others lifestyle or circumstances, but if you try to be stiff it gives bad effects in your life.
Always appreciate others for even a miniature of good deed - It is again a Give and Take relationship. Having expectations are not bad but you need to know to appreciate others and to gain in return.
Be diplomatic - This world is for Diplomat's. You can not be Gandhi ji always.
Trust your intuition - At times when all the doors are shut, it is your innerself which gives you immense signals to come out of it.
Always trust on the first thought - When in confusion, always trust the first thought that comes to your mind. Trust me that will make your life much easier.
Don't jump into conclusion - Giving a thought process with proper analysis to your judgment reaps better results.
Ask questions to your self - before anyone else can point a finger on you, ask questions to yourself and save your ASS.
Be positive - This is the must to have. When there is no hope, positive thinking acts like an ignition and generates the spark of hope.
Never stop dreaming - To be successful, lead the path of your dreams. They are the roadmap and the key indicators towards your success.
Don't be too hard on yourself - Before expecting an appreciation from others, analyse and appreciate your own self Forsee your future with clear mind. Believe in your self and always carry inner content.
Always have a plan B with yourself - You never know in life you need to repent for not having a backup.
Network - It is very important to build your network. You may need them at any point in time.
Learn to forgive others for their misakes.
Carry a fevicol smile on your face - It charges not only you but the enviornment around you as well. & you never know who is falling in love with your smile ;)
Don't panic, there is always a solution for all the problems - be calm and relaxed, solution is there in your hands.
Have a goal setting for yourself - Maintain a 'To Do list' every day, this helps in accomplishing goals.
Copy is better than the model - Have some one as a model and you will always be ahead of your own model. :-o)
Value your family and be there for them without any means
At times self-deciet is helpful
Lending a helping hand does not pain
Confidence is a key to make or break
Take time to understand your BOSS.. Try to model your Boss. - It is in your hand to make your life "Hell" or "Heaven" @ office ;). So instead of getting depressed on any hit by your boss, it is better to understand the nature of your boss well to do to make your life easier and ofcourse "Heaven". Try to put your feet in others shoe.
Friends have to be treasured through out life time - No matter if you stay in touch with them or not, but always treasure a good report with your friends, cos all of us are special in some or the other way & we tend to learn from any one. A remebrance of those good things learnt from your friends can be a good trigger while in need.
Be a good listener. - Try to remember things told by those who care. At times you need to force yourself hard to pay attention to what they told, but it pays in long run if you remember. The smell of the care from your behaviour when you pay attention gives a big relief to your loved one.

Trust me all this has worked for me & I am sure we all believe in the above truths. But I enjoyed writing all this, after all it was my experience. :-0)